When a baby first starts to try to walk, there is never an expectation of immediate success. When a child in the first attempt, the parents do not consider their child a failure or an express disappointment in their child. We all know that when it comes to the development of this new skill, the baby must first develop its strength and balance before success can be achieved. Because crawling, stumble and fall is recognized as a natural part of the development of the baby, there is no expectation of failure, as long as the baby to try. Itself as a baby is not master the first, second or the 100th attempt, most parents will still feel secure that their baby will run in the time.
There is no time which we a baby just stop, tell because experience has taught us that each bust a baby brings that much closer to success. When a baby is determined to run is, it will not stop trying to do this for a long time, no matter how many times they fall. Babies live in a world of boundless opportunity, where what they want, so and so they do not stop.
We also help to strengthen this unstoppable attitude within babies by praising them every step of the way. We love them, hug them and smile at them through each step of their learning process. We make sure that they recognize that any attempt is a success, because each attempt is now important how awkward is progress towards the ultimate goal of running.
If you think about it, will babies are probably the best examples of the power of focus, persistence and determination, you ever find because they are not prey to the limiting beliefs and expectations that we have adopted over the years.
So the question yourself is why would your standards of success are different than that of a baby? The success rate for babies learn to walk is extremely high, so we all have a proven system for achieving know that a high probability of success. So why we ignore the lessons of the unstoppable persistence that we are witnessing in the majority of babies?
Why are we ourselves to shut down, when babies not? Why we support babies through their challenges, but not our friends, family and colleagues. Why don't we realize that we deserve to be encouraged and praised when we are not in the exercise of a meaningful goal? Why we unrealistic expectations on our performance in the taking of new challenges?
Development of a new skill with a learning curve where you your strength and knowledge through your successes and failures. When you develop a new skill, failure not only expectation it is almost guaranteed. When you fall (or not), the effort to back up helps build the strength, balance and knowledge making it less likely you will fall again.
When are you going to stop looking for new approaches to success, and a system of success that has been proven to work since the beginning of time? When are you going to stop because of fear of failure, baby stepping out of your way to success with the unstoppable persistence of a baby?
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Written by Mario Wells, Inspirational Speaker/Writer/coach and founder of http://www.wakeuplife.com
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