For some people each year looks stunning growth and success in many areas of their lives. However, for some each year a shocking and dreary repetition of the previous year-the same quality of life in terms of relationships, finances, health, contribution, inner growth and career. Why is this so?
Secret 1: Excitement is temporary, inspiration is life-changing
The first secret is that successful people are looking for a compelling reason or purpose stick to their intent. Yearly (often around the 1st day of the year), many people objectives with the best intentions ... want to change their lives in a certain way, but by the end of January of the year, many have given up on the target. It has been said that day 2 of a diet is always the best, because you have gone back to normal!
Have you ever, after setting a goal, said to yourself: "I am pumped up, this time it is going to be different, this time I make it happen?, and within a short period of time, find yourself back to situation normal? The purpose and your excitement a fading memory. This is a huge indicator that you excitement (short-term, temporary energy) are carried out and not be forced by long-lasting inspiration.
Long-term motivation comes when you connect your goals is something that is deep and meaningful to you and has a purpose that inspires you to keep it going no matter how difficult and challenging.
Hot Tip: If you wake up one morning and ask yourself "Why am I doing this?" and cannot answer will give you a huge crisis, and you probably can kiss goodbye to your destination. So spending time in front of getting clarity around why this declared intent/target important is: "why do I want this? Why am I doing this? Why make it so close to my heart that I will mountains to cause to happen? "
Secret 2: make sure you have inspired and not Desperate
If your goals are not based in inspiration that they can properly be based on despair-fear that something bad will happen if you don't reach.
We are driven by our desire for fun and to avoid pain. There are many people who will jump from a 2nd story building as it's on fire-calculation of the cost of breaking a leg is less than the risk of burn to death. Yet those same people would not jump out of that building for $ 10,000. So as you people will do things avoid pain can see, but they do it willingly?
A few years ago a friend of mine was diagnosed with diabetes. Initially, he was filled with fear and he was careful with his diet and alcohol consumption. So he lost a huge amount of weight, looked great and was good in his diabetes control. As time went by his fear less. Slowly but surely, he began to eat and drink just like the old days. Today he is heavier than for his diagnosis and now has daily insulin shots. In the first instance as an airplane zooming down the runway, he had a lot of energy and momentum to take care of themselves. However, because his motivation was based in fear, the energy soon petered out.
Do you think he had spent more time connecting with an inspiring why, he may have forever changed his life huge? Imagine how much stronger commitment to his health would be if he focused on healthy living and to participate actively in the life of his sons as they of young children in men grew?
Despair can make a good first to gather momentum, but as you can see that it is generally not sustainable. You have a lot of people in your work do the minimum, because they need the money? These are people who give are received by despair.
Hot Tip: Ask yourself: am I doing this out of despair or inspiration? Am I to drive this objective fear or I have a long term motivator? If it is fear than keep digging until you hear a reason that fascinating.
Secret 3: put yourself in prayer and potential
Once you have your inspirational why clearly defined for your target finally should you put yourself in places of potential. Places where the people, the circumstances and events will improve your ability.
Mark Victor Hansen tells a story that a few years ago, he was on a seminar with Tony Robbins was present and he asked Tony "you know, we both learn the same things and we both do a great job getting your income is 31 million dollars per year and mine is only 1 million dollars?".
Tony replied, "how much do the people you hang with earn?"
Mark: "$ 1 million".
Tony: "there's your answer".
Mark started hanging out with billionaires rather quickly. Are you sensitive to the impact in many ways, what that allow you to be aware of his will and some will be very clever in its subtlety.
Reduce your exposure to people or the events that you need and maximize your exposure to people and events that inspire and uplift you. This might be as simple as turning on a piece of music that connects you instantly with a time when you were very, very successful.
Hot Tip: If we look at the people who surround you. They work for or against you? They are positive, uplifting, moving forward people or are they people who are inclined to want to smother of your dreams?
If you have been hanging around the "negative nellies" minimize your exposure to them. Better yet away from it all and their influence them as fast as you can.
If you are committed to yourself and your dreams then each of the above tips, she will set you well on the road to success.
Shelley Holmes is the creator of http://www.leadership-and-motivation-training.com-a website with more than 200 pages of ideas, information and tools to guide, coach and inspire you to your best.
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