The secret of success

I have a student of success for many years. I read a lot of books, listened to the many bands, and participated in various seminars for success, motivation, time management, money, leadership, sales, persuasion, and other related topics. I have tried many things: subliminal tapes, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), hypnosis, transcendental meditation, psycho cybernetics, confirmations, visualizations, singing, and so on.

I have learned a lot about this fascinating journey and I've actually be able to use the information that I learned a lot from my goals. However, not all system worked.For example, there were times when I followed the "7 Steps to Success" and the "10 keys to effective time Management of the ' cultural and religious and I no longer success or mastery over my time. but the author and many of his students satisfied were convinced that this particular system worked.

I read the various books on the creation of wealth and many of these books that have been focused on the use of affirmations and visualizations, but no matter how clearly I saw my mental images in my imagination, or how many emotional intensity that I mustered when my affirmations to say, I did not attract the wealth that I wanted. but apparently this method certainly has worked for many people-but not for me.

It took me a while to get this out but I "Finally it."

This is what I finally figured out: we all live in our own personal reality. In our own personal universe. There are certain things that "works" well in our own world and other things that simply do not work. In the reality of each person are special skills. This very personal skills are commonly referred to as have a talent, talent, or have a special "gift."

Mozart's talent was music. Special gift of Alexander the great was military conquest. want to duplicate of another person's performance is kinda stupid because everyone has their own special talent.Their talent is not necessarily your talent. Everyone is unique. the essence of greatness is finding your own unique talents and develop as much as possible, like Mozart and Alexander did. Here is the true meaning of that common saying, "Be Yourself."

So when you read in a book about how the author has been expanded to include using visualizations, they show that this happens to be one of their special talents. This metaphysical exercise works in the author's reality system. But that doesn't necessarily mean it will work in your reality system.

Now, an argument can be made that as "thought leads to reality," a metaphysical approach good luck to everyone should work, because we all think.Many authors in the field of self-help seem to work under this assumption. However, this assumption is incorrect because not everyone an introvert. not everyone has a tendency or desire to look within, vivid mental pictures and proposals of a "better future".

There are a lot of people who like things done the old fashioned way. These people want to work hard and get their hands dirty. they are Extrovert in their attitude to life and they have preferred a more "hands on" approach to getting things done. These practical people prefer a clear list of things to do, people to see, and projects to complete. They are not interested in everything that metaphysical or "strange". They would rather a practical approach to success.

There is a big trend to generalize when to determine how best to get things done. Generalizing, however, is not always a good idea. We are all different. We all have our own unique skills and abilities.

The secret of success is this: study of everything that you can.The information shall apply.Press and hold the techniques that actually work.Ignore the rest.Use the strategies that work on your own system. at the end of the day, you will only succeed with the help of your own method.You will need is your goals into your own unique path.

Every great achiever, winner and motivational speaker has its own system.There are no carbon copy everyone is different. Brian Tracy system is different from the Denis Waitley.Les Brown's system is unique.For example, Jim Rohn system. Yes, there are a number of laps. some ideas are very similar. But every master teaches his own unique methodology that distinguishes him from the rest.

So a pioneer. to do your own thing. create your own system. your own path to follow. you want to reach a point at the end of your life where you can look back on a life of performance and proud, "I did it my way" Frank Sinatra said in one of his songs.

Anthony Alexander is a success coach living in New York. you can visit his website University success on [http://successuniversity123.com], you can email him at: aa30newyork@yahoo.com. he can be reached at (347) 556-2596.