Good people, bad attitudes
I'm just going to jump right in this. People want you to fail. Plain and simple. It sounds a bit harsh and unrealistic at first, but if you consider the following you will realize that it is true. While most people will not come out and say it directly, we as a culture indirectly bred to think this way. From the moment we are born, we are exposed to numerous media outlets that scream "no matter how much you have, it is not enough." We are trained from a very young age to believe that we have to look a certain way a certain thing, or problems have a certain way in order to be successful, or even, in many cases, "normal" Act. After years of being surrounded by this, our thoughts are destined to behave in a certain way. When a person of another persons success belongs, will be hundreds of thoughts immediately thrown around in their heads, including most negative will. No matter how well can you present an idea to a friend, 90% of the time which they will give you 1000 or more reasons why that idea won't work. They do not do this in a way that is direct and insulting and in fact usually portray it as an attempt to help you. "But have you thought about this?", "can you realize how much it costs?", "I'm trying just to help out", and so on. The fact is that they are trained to think that way because subconsciously their brain tells them that you can succeed, and leave them behind. It is a natural tendency that is very difficult to combat. Most people don't even realize what they are doing and really believe that they are by the provision of "logical" advice. But the fact is, unless they speak of 100% personal experience, the only "logical" advice that they are ideas that their brain has generated on the fly. They are good people, they just have bad mentality.
Getting your way
In the same way that other people are trying to get in the way of our success, we also have a tendency to get in the way of our own success. Having regard to the same principals as above, a lot of people over many years of exposure to contemporary culture begin to feel that no matter what they do, they will never have enough. As I've said, we are in principle brainwashed from a young age to believe we will never have enough, and after hearing this crap for so long, we have almost no choice but to believe that it is true.
Here's the truth. If you're not making a conscious effort to discover your skills, and other things that you own, you will inevitably fall into a State of mind that tells you that you are not better than anyone else. So many people actually believe they are not a thing altogether to offer of this world, and that's really a disease of the brain as I've ever heard of a. If you want to think that way, then you are just like everyone else. But I can assure you there is no fun in that. each of us have our own set of skills, ambitions and objectives and it's those things that make us aside from everyone. The fact is, however, that most people will not be applied to many of these skills, ambitions and objectives and therefore will fall into the same that 90% of the world falls into place. If any of us were the literal choice a day to conquer all of our goals and get the most out of life, or fall in contempt and die peacefully bored, would, of course, we choose the first. The truth is, however, we have that choice. Fortunately, we get to make that choice every day that we woke up. The sad truth is that most people will choose the second option. Why? Because it is easy. It's really easy to just get out of bed each day, go to work, eat, then going back to bed and do it over again the next day. We as a culture keep cycles. We love tradition. Why? Because we know what to expect. If we don't follow a routine, we would never know what to expect, and that makes a lot of people uncomfortable. But here's the truth. You can die peacefully bored, or you can live life with a bit of uncertainty and is very likely to change the world. Getting your way, you'll have great things to do.
OK I'm ready! Now what
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Kyle Ferguson
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