Showing posts with label Succeed. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Succeed. Show all posts

Friday, June 3, 2011

Succeed by eating frogs-success tips from the swamps of Florida

Recently, Bear Grylls, the survival expert, was lowered into the Florida Everglades from a helicopter along with a knife, watch, water bottle, flint and the clothes on his back. His mission - to survive and get out!


He landed up to his thighs in water and checked around him for signs of alligators. Some of the swamp alligators are huge. Many of us would have climbed right back into the helicopter and flown off at speed in the direction of civilization.


He faced several days of humid weather in a watery land that hosts a million alligators and not a few deadly snakes, bears, scorpions and other hazards. He had to find his own way out to safety. The helicopter had gone.


Any survival story can teach at least three valuable success lessons:


Firstly, it can make us appreciate how easy, safe and comfortable our normal lives are. Once we realize this, most of our tasks will seem comparatively easy. We can do them without watching under the bed for predators who see us as breakfast and without taking time out to hunt down our own food!


Secondly, we can learn that knowledge and skills give us life saving power and that time spent increasing our knowledge and key skills is time well spent.


Thirdly, we can learn ways to keep up our morale when we experience tough and tiring situations.


The title of this account about eating frogs refers to two ways of eating frogs. Small frogs provide much needed protein if you are stranded in a swamp without food. Frogs in the glades are not poisonous and can be eaten with confidence!


Secondly, most people naturally hate the idea of eating frogs so Brian Tracy teaches that we should eat the frog i.e. deal with the task we least want to do first thing in the morning.


Everything else will then seem much easier and we will be inspired by our success in having already dealt with the worst task of the day.


However, some people might prefer to deal with the easier tasks first just to get themselves going. We are all different and need different types of motivation.


Bear Gryll's first task was obvious. He needed a weapon. He wasted no time in locating a stick that could be used to poke at an alligator's eyes and nostrils.


It would, at least, give him extra reach to try to keep the alligator at a distance. Safety is a vital priority of any successful nation or individual.


Bear's next priority was to decide on the direction he should take to get out of the glades before his energy gave out. A key part of survival is to save energy by avoiding going round in circles.


He climbed a tree to get his bearings by tying his shoe laces together and then shinning up a branchless tree using the shoelaces for leverage.


This technique allowed him to use his legs to power himself up the tree. His arms were only used for balance. An important survival and success principle is to make use of all the physical and mental strength you possess.


Another key survival principle is to be prepared before you enter a new situation. You especially need to study the geography of a place and any landmarks or clues that may help you find your way.


In the city, those with weak bladders or heavy drinkers need to check out potential rest rooms or bushes that will provide cover when they just have to relieve themselves!


At the top of the tree, Bear looked for pine trees since they grow on dry land but all he saw were cypress trees and water oaks. That means swamp and more swamp. He had to try another method.


To succeed, you may have to try out several methods before you achieve your goal. Edison's thousand attempts to create a light bulb is the classic example of this kind of perseverance.


Bear knew that higher ground in the Everglades is inland and that the direction of inland was west. He pointed the hour hand of his watch to the sun knowing that half way between the sun and 12 o'clock is south.


He could work out the direction of west from that. It was essential that he stick to his plan of going west to avoid going round in circles. Sometimes success involves sticking to one plan for at least a few days.


Bear headed off west and tripped over a log which had the sinister shape of a half-submerged alligator. The swamps are scary. You never know what you are treading on. Bear was spooked.


He spotted bubbles and quickly got out of the water onto the trunk of a nearby tree. No point in taking risks.


He made much noise by splashing water and hitting trees with his stick to give warning of his presence to alligators. They are much more likely to attack you if they are surprised and think they have to defend themselves.


He came to a clearing with some deep water in it and a few alligators sunning themselves to keep warm. Bear did not want to risk wading across the deep water so he looked for another way.


He found a cypress that was leaning across the clearing. Bear knew that a cypress tree that can grow in water would be unlikely to break. He climbed up the cypress and then swung across to another tree at the far side and shimmied down to ground level.


It was late and Bear knew that he had to get out of the water before night fall - the main feeding time for alligators.


He found a pop ash tree which had enough limbs which would allow him to construct a base long enough to sleep on at full stretch and wide enough to prevent him rolling out into the water. Vines and other useful materials were all around. This would save him time and energy.


He used the fronds of a cabbage palm to provide bedding. Once the bed was made, fire was Bear's next priority. Fire would keep predators away and dry his clothes.


He made a mud base on the bed for a fire and dried and checked his feet for trench foot. If your feet are wet for twelve hours or more, the skin starts to flake off and eventually becomes infected and "out here, if you can't walk, you die."


Without Bear's knowledge, lighting a fire would be impossible in such damp surroundings. The power of relevant knowledge is essential for survival and success.


His first night in the swamp was not relaxing. Scary noises were all around as the swamp life came alive. The mosquitoes bit him on his thighs when he removed his trousers to dry them.


In the morning, he needed to drink water. He used his shirt to filter the swamp water and then boiled the water to kill parasites and bacteria. While he waited for the water to boil, he used his water bottle to show him south. He tied it to his stick and watched to see which way it would swing - a shrewd local technique.


The water of the Everglades flows slowly south to the gulf of Mexico. After 30 minutes the bottle had swung round about 2 feet and stayed level. Bear knew his direction again and moved on looking for food.


The dead wood of the swamp is often home to bugs and insects. He found the larvae of some carpenter ants which are four times higher in protein content than beef. They taste sour but are a life saver. A survivor cannot afford to be fussy.


He moved on through cypress tree roots and then a plain of saw grass. Bear's knowledge again helped him to negotiate these areas safely. Time after time his journey through the swamps showed the power of knowledge and key skills.


Learning useful skills and what you need to know is hugely important for both survival and success.


He now came across an alligator infested river. His knowledge would be more important than ever. For example, he knew that alligators can run at thirty miles an hour over short distances. If an alligator hisses, it could be about to attack. They do not feed at midday.


Bear had to find a safe place to swim the river. In 2006 three women were killed by alligators in one week - one was swimming and two others were dragged in from the water's edge.


Bear found a narrow part of the river with good visibility all the way around. He waited an hour knowing that a large male alligator could stay underwater for up to 45 minutes.


In hot weather they often lie in deep water to cool down. Bear looked for any ripples or the eyes of the alligator just above water. Survival and success often demand relentless patience.


Bear had waited for an hour. He swam underwater so that he would not be mistaken for a bird or a turtle bobbing on the surface of the water. He kept his knife in his hand.


His heart was thumping as he reached the far side. He walked on to reach pine trees and dry land where alligators would no longer be a threat as they only live near water:


Bear commented that one word sums up the Everglades: "Unforgiving."


However, food was available. He found a small frog and ate it raw making sure that he killed it with his first bite. Eat whenever you can to survive. He then made a net to catch some minnows and ate those raw as well.


He next found some grapefruit and oranges. This was a sign that the area may have been used by the Seminole Indians who were forced to hide from the US army in the early 19th century.


Bear made a shelter in this dry area. "If it was good enough for the Seminoles, it is good enough for me." He made a morale boosting fire to keep predators away.


Next morning, he found a turtle that was not protected. He killed it swiftly and cooked it, as the Seminoles do, in its shell. The shell is brittle and cracks when the meat is ready to eat. Bear commented:


"It really does taste quite like chicken. That's really good fleshy meat. The turtle has given me vital energy and has also given me a psychological boost and so much of survival is about keeping your morale up. Recharged, I am going to keep heading west."


The dry land seemed safer than the swamp but appearances are deceptive. Bear soon came across a noisy rattlesnake. Such snakes can strike up to half their body length. He kept his eye on it and backed away slowly. You have to be very careful when walking round in thigh deep grass.


Snakes were not the only problem. There were black bears around. Bear came a cross a huge paw print on a tree. I was once chased by an Iranian mountain bear cub when I was a kid so I know how even small bears can inspire fear!


He now came into an area of swamp mud and found a sink hole of the type which can swallow small vehicles. He jumped into a hole to demonstrate how to get out. He showed how, if he struggled in an upright position, he was sucked further in.


He escaped by leaning forward and using his stick held horizontally in both his hands to create more surface area to lean forward on. He still had to work hard and wriggle out. Once on the surface, he monkey crawled away.


Recently, a jogger fell into a sink hole up to his chest and was stuck there for three days. He was found on the fourth day delirious and covered in bug bites.


Bear now came across a fence and a road. He had survived!


In the Everglades, salvation can be found just round the next tree. If you're lost never give up hope. If you're failing, never give up. Success could be just round the corner!


Learn the skills you need to succeed and stick to your plans! Eat the frogs if necessary but above all, appreciate how much easier it is to live with appetizing food, clean water, decent shelter and a nice, warm bed readily available!


John Watson is an award winning teacher and 5th degree blackbelt martial arts instructor. He has written several ebooks on motivation and success topics. One of these can be found at http://www.motivationtoday.com/36_laws.php


You can also find motivational ebooks by authors like Stuart Goldsmith. Check out http://www.motivationtoday.com/the_midas_method.php


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Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Motivation to succeed


What do you want to achieve in your life? Where do you want to be in five years? 10 years? 25 years? You are and watched your life? If you do not know where you want to go, then I can guarantee that you will not.

Most people don't know what they want. They might think that they do, but in reality, they're not. They know just what they do not want. They do not want to be broke, a have a boring job, a source of frustration for their families, etc.Understand exactly what you want is not the same as knowing what you don't like. If all you do not want to know what you, your life will have no focus.

Without focus you have nothing to work on in addition to what you don't like.Instead of slowly build up to a final destination, at the end of the day you're working with a bunch of small negative goals that are easy, and on this basis if something goes wrong. This will eventually end up confusion, discouragement and worst of all, failure. Whereas, if a target has been set up, you on how you can develop a clear action plan.

A specific goal is much easier to achieve than vague goals, such as not be a bad thing, of getting rich.Setting specific targets, you can map from a path and installation of step by step action plan for getting there. each performance will be one step closer to the ultimate aim. Committing to a clearly defined purpose, regardless of what it is, gives you the best chance to achieve success. Know what you want to achieve and what it will take to get there to inspiration and self motivation.

Self motivation is something that comes from within and helps you to overcome obstacles while you pursue your goals. In the real estate company is self motivation is absolutely necessary. You will not have to rely on others to keep you motivated to reach your goals. The power of self motivation will allow you to achieve what you want in life, and this power exists within us all.

A member of the real estate needs personal goals.Your goals along with a positive attitude will provide the keys to your success.Personal goals, you can direct your passion and the production of energy, having regard to the desired results.Setbacks and challenges are frustrating and inevitable, but an agent that a positive attitude and motivated to succeed will use as the learn from the experience and move on.

So, to a motivation to succeed, you need the specific goals you want to go where you tell. next, you need to set up a plan that covers the necessary tasks that you need to do each day to make your ultimate objectives. know what to do and why you do it, is a critical step for the refuelling of your self-motivation. If you don't have a strong self motivation to succeed in the real estate business develop, you have little or no chance of succeeding. it is as simple as that!








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Thursday, October 7, 2010

The top 15 Motivational Quotes Which Help You TO STAY positive, purposeful and filling to succeed!

Have you ever become inspired - and then combined focus with action to produce a striking ultimate success? Yes? Ok then; how did you become inspired? Did you read something? See something? Hear about someone or some thing? Or, did someone extend you an encouraging word or sentiment which ignited your passion?


Yeah - think about what inspired you...and the idea, suggestion or concept which was its originating catalyst.


Have you ever become so motivated - so purposefully driven - that seeing your quest all the way
through to (full) completion became your singular motive, indeed, your relentless life mission? Yes -
to a degree where each day you would do what you had to, all that you had to, so that continually - demonstrably - you moved ever closer to actualizing your intent? (And then at some point, you did come to actualize your intent?!)


Think about this now. What motivated you, and kept motivating and driving you on? And, for you, what was the idea, suggestion, or concept that was its original activation and fueling source?


It's originating catalyst. Its activation and fueling source. Hmmm that would happen if you could continually sustain motivation fueling ideas, suggestions and concepts? Yes, so you kept driving yourself further and further on toward your particular outcome?


The answer is - you'd persist, you'd persevere...and eventually, you'd come to ultimately triumph! As such, I'll now give you 15 motivation fueling messages of life - "life bites" - you can use to keep the inner "flames" of passion, drive, and determination burning - in a decidedly progress compelling way.


Enjoy, and be empowered by them -- right on through to your personal success!


[1] Developing Heart


"The lion sleeps well at night because he knows he's king of the jungle ...
His physical prowess and power is part of his force.
The heart to assert his power is the other part of the equation ...
You develop heart by acting in support of what you believe, by upholding your personal life standards, and through embracing the idea that you're more capable - indeed, a lot more capable -
than you usually give yourself credit for; indeed, you are!
Therefore, you can - and should - now do things which purposefully show initiative,
self respect - and things which notably move you ahead ...
Don't hold it 'in'.
Don't hold it 'back'.
Let it flow...and let you Go!
Then - through this heart -- You will sleep well each night!"


[2] "When the 'crunch time' moment of truth is upon you,
and your body says 'No' - let your mind say a resounding Yes ...
Then, reach within your soul, and pull up the last vestige of success force residing within you --
And then conclusively DO that which is before you -
in the definitive way which can only be labeled...your consummate Best!


[3] "Regarding acquiring or producing the thing you say you want to have:
Have first the courage of your conviction ...
Stand up for what you believe is right and justified, the way you believe it ...
Act, and continue to act firmly the way you believe is right and justified ...
Compromise not your standards for any reason, for any person, at any time ...
Stand up, and remain standing, my friend.
Remember: The courage of your conviction!"


[4] "The next time someone lets you 'down' - lift yourself back up ...
Take the time and energy you'd have spent on berating,
chastising, and 'hammering' the one who let you 'down'--
and spend it instead on the uplift...of YOU.
Get it done, and get it done by your self -
For you are someone you can always depend on!"


[5] The Amazing Truth


"The most amazing truth is that - right now - you can decide to believe in yourself --
to decide that you can have what you want, that you've got what it takes, and that you deserve to experience true joy - the kind that accompanies taking initiative to move yourself ahead in
noteworthy accomplishment ...
If you look deeply into your very soul now, you'd see that this amazing truth applies to you --
yes, YOU!
And, that there's absolutely nothing to refute its viability - or appropriateness for you ...
You can decide to accept and embrace this truth - now,
and, as such, no longer withhold your power from yourself, or the world ...
For making this decision will unfold for you the Power
that will make your life truly meaningful and substantive.
Indeed, it is then you will truly start...Living!"


[6] "If but one person believes in you,
your flow of mind can move you toward incredible achievement ...
If that one person is you, you can evolve into realms
that others would 'swear'...were 'impossible'!"


[7] The Struggle


"The struggle makes you strong;
Character becomes forged of steel,
sinews become tempered through the effort...
Go then with resolve -- sustain your drive;
press on with a hunger only conquest can fulfill --
Let your will remain undaunted,
and let your faith now command forth your soul.
It can be done my friend -- and it can be done...by You!"


[8] "Every mountain can be climbed --
you reaching its peak is squarely a matter of choice,
conviction, commitment, and will."


[9] *The Living Dreamer


" 'How do things come to be things' I asked?
With a warm smile, the wise man turned to me and said:
'Some look over the waters, and, seeing with their eyes only,
don't see anything at all; the waters always stay the same for them ...
'Some look over the waters and see with their heart.
They see something that's not there yet -- but something
they really want to be there, and believe can be there ...
'And seeing this over and over again in their hearts makes them feel good,
and inspires them to act, and create...and then place their vision upon the waters' ...
'Well, what do you call these people' I asked?
'Dreamers', he said.
'Dreamers', I asked?
'Yes...living dreamers -- the kind who bring forth aspects of life others then richly live!'"


[10] "Liken those accomplished to a bird building its nest:
The bird doesn't think 'Will there be enough materials available for me to use?'
Or 'Will I be able to build the 'right nest' and build it properly and efficiently --
a nest that will be sure to 'hold up'?'
Or, 'Will the 'right' place for me to build my nest be available?'
They just get to work, and stay at work - until the job is done!"


[11] "The Strong shall survive ...
The Intelligent shall prosper ...
The Faithful shall experience miracles ...
The Determined, shall go on to conquer!


[12] "Something 'stopping' you really isn't as much an issue as something starting you ...
Nothing is really trying to 'prevent' you from doing anything ...
But if nothing activates you, you will not - and can not -
move ahead in the direction of any goal or improvement ...
Something 'stopping' you -- that lies in the realm outside of you ...
Something starting you -- that lies strictly in the realm...within you!"


[13] "The size of the mountain you're facing isn't as important as
the size of your conviction to conquer it!
Yes -- conviction determines ultimate conquest!"


[14] "If you know you can back up your claims and assertions -
go ahead then and don't just 'push' the envelope ...
Shove it as hard and persistently as you can -- until it Breaks!"


[15] You Will Always Be Tested


"You will always be Tested - to see if you're truly ready for ultimate triumph --
To take the final step into the conquest of the goal, and fulfill your ultimate purpose --
To see if you truly want it all the way indeed, to see if the way you have to be
to claim it, then hold it, has become wholly structured within you ...


When things are seemingly going smoothly as you want them, and you sense you're getting closer, ever closer ... from 'out of the blue' a situation unfolds upon your pathway whose only purpose is that of seemingly withholding you, undermining you, compromising you, or causing you to either backslide, or break down ...


It may seem like for some 'strange' Reason, the closer you get to your ultimate breakthrough,
the more profound and decisive these type situations become...
'Why me, why this; why now' you may cry out... 'I've done absolutely nothing to have warranted or attracted something like this; why do I have to deal with something like this now .. Why?!'
You are being Tested. To see if within, you are yet totally of the nature, have wholly learned the lessons you must, and are truly ready to evolve into the ultimate realm --
the realm where your hopes, dreams, desires and your prayers become blatant, and an outward truth.


And you have the choice to break free of the undercutting impact of what may 'look' like a negative,
through choosing the light of understanding and commitment which your realization of the Test will
provide --y es, the opportunity to wholly demonstrate a decision to be and do all of what you know
you must - in the specific way required - knowing that the Test is so you build the absolute RIGHT levels
of faith, thought, and conviction-until they've become decisive, indeed, invincibly rooted within you...


Which door will YOU pass through, my friend, when the Test seemingly challenges your will?
When it does, let the pure vision, and the way you know you must be to achieve conclusive triumph
reign precise within you - and choose wisely ... Choose to PASS the Test when it's 'given' - so you can then claim the ultimate victory which destiny has prepared ... for you!"


(Each Quote © Copyright 2008 Peter C. Siegel, R.H.)


Powerhouse self-help author, life transformation specialist, private clinician, and national TV therapist, Peter C. Siegel, R.H. is the country's foremost peak performance hypnotherapist, and #1 personal best coach.


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